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Okay. Hello, this is professor.

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This is professor positive.

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The, the key to success is not trying

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to please everyone.

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No human can be all things to all people.

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Many have tried to accomplish this only to fail miserably

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in our modern society.

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Being liked and being popular is the most sought

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after attribute.

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Pursuing this can have unintended

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and often negative consequences.

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It's like, it's like women cannot be enough,

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cannot be thin enough, and men cannot be muscular enough.

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This can lead to depression and even suicide.

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If the individual is not accepted

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by whatever in group they're trying to be.

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A member of the problems of eating disorders

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can often be traced back

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to the individual's poor self-image,

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and desire to be one of the beautiful people.

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Parents or other adults have a responsibility to give,

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to guide slash mentor impressionable teens

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or young adults to develop self-worth

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and being an individual that is fully functional

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outside of the group.

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Most human beings have an innate desire to connect

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with other people, so they're so, they're not ignored

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or treated as a non-person, the desire to belong

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to a group can have negative consequences if the group

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indulges in risky or illegal activities.

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This is often, this often, this is what often happens

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to teenagers or young adults and even college students.

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The temptation to soul wild oats can be too much to resist

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and can ruin a person for life.

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A becoming a convicted felon,

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or going through life with missing limbs.

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Parents and other adults must be vigilant

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to prevent this temptation from becoming a reality.

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You cannot live another person's life,

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nor should you want to.

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However you could, you would be

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remiss if not in explaining the pitfalls of risky behavior.

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Everyone can and must be responsible for their own actions

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and must be held accountable

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for the consequences of these actions.

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The bottom line is to know yourself

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and be true to that person.

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Okay.

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